Are You Being Too Agreeable for Love to Last?

Is it possible for love to last if you’re too agreeable?

Most people reading this won’t believe it’s possible to have an overly accommodating partner.

Anyone who has ever been in a relationship understands that two people with opposing personalities will eventually irritate each other.

It’s a reality that when two people live together, they will every now and then overstep boundaries, cause bad feelings, or simply make each other crazy.

Most of the time, the people you care about are the ones that drive you the most insane.

Arguing is a natural reaction in these instances.

Dishes are thrown, clothes are thrown, and words are said in the heat of the moment.

It’s natural for people to argue.

It’s to be expected.

In a relationship, it is not normal to constantly agree or never quarrel.

Relationships need to have arguments.

They accomplish more than merely letting off steam.

Here are a few reasons why you and your partner should have a fight now and then in your relationship.

Of course, no physical fighting is ever appropriate in any relationship.

We are talking about arguments and disagreements that get heated but never escalate to physical altercations.

Disputes Clear the Air

They’re useful tools for expressing your true feelings to your lover.

When couples never fight, it’s usually the first quarrel, which reveals all the bottled-up frustrations, hurt, and fury, that leads to the breakup of the relationship.

Arguments allow you to express how you feel, how you’re hurting, and what you want to avoid in the future.

Arguments Demonstrate Relationship Engagement

They infuse the connection with a sense of anticipation.

They don’t hold back in letting your partner know you’re there.

They demonstrate that you are invested in the connection and that you care.

In many cases, they function as a barometer for the level of affection in a relationship and are vital tools for your spouse to understand how invested you are in the relationship.

Arguments Bring Up Important Issues

We’re all aware that there are some political and religious topics that should not be discussed in polite society.

When it comes to relationships, the same is true.

Some topics aren’t often as well defined as religion and politics.

Cooking, mechanical ability, family, and friends, as well as politics and religion, play a role in some relationships.

You know to back off and avoid debating the problem once you’ve established the hot topics in your relationship.

It’s sometimes necessary to agree to disagree.

However, if you never tell your partner how you actually feel or how significant the problem is to you, he or she will most likely continue to bring it up, making your blood boil.

Unless you express your feelings to your partner, he or she will think you agree.

Allowing your first disagreement to be the fatal blow to your relationship is not a good idea.

Learn to speak up and express your true feelings and thoughts to your companion.

Above all, learn to fight fairly so that any differences or debates you have are constructive rather than destructive.