8 Ways to Win Back Your Boyfriend

After two years of dating, you receive the words you never expected to hear: “It’s over.”

The words don’t register in your mind; you can’t stand it, and you desperately want him back!

What plan do you have?

Texting and emailing will not suffice; you must comprehend and hear an explanation of what went wrong and why.

After taking some time to soothe yourself, you try to recall any explanation for why this transpired the way it did.

You start to wonder, “Was it me? “Did I do something to contribute to the break-up?”

But it goes deeper than that; consider your inner self and reflect on the last six months.

What would you have done differently?

Look at the following points to help you get answers:

(Remember that these are only recommendations.)

1. First and foremost, you both require some alone time.

You need time and space to consider your options.

You won’t benefit from social media during this time because Tweeting or messaging him too quickly would give the impression that you’re desperate.

Allow at least a month before texting him to check how he is; chances are he is missing you just as much as your time apart demonstrates.

2. Take a long, hard look in the mirror.

What role did you play in the breakup?

Was there anything that could have been done differently?

If you can go deep inside yourself, you can find the answers to regaining your connection!

Yes, this is difficult, but you will emerge with discovered truths and clarity—give it your best!

3. Pay attention to your appearance.

There’s no need to instantly live in sweats and ditch the makeup.

You never know when he’ll appear around the corner.

4. Control your emotions.

Never send an email or text message expressing your feelings; doing so will frighten him and make it appear as if the breakup was your fault and you are apologizing.

Plus, having an emotional mess on the other end of a message will make them feel as if they don’t want that person in their life.

A more informal approach, such as sending a message on Facebook or Instagram to check how he’s doing and if he’s available to meet up, is much more attractive and engaging.

5. Use simple terminology when speaking with him.

There’s no need to shout or elevate your voice, as this can make the potential of makeup disappear.

6. Don’t make the conversation too serious.

Instead, present a lighter side of yourself.

Don’t act like a needy adolescent in need of assistance in resolving your love life and expressing how much you miss him.

7. Keep busy and show him that he is not always on your mind.

Even if he is, he doesn’t need to know.

Most importantly, avoid engaging in a rebound romance!

Don’t show him that you’ve moved on if you really want him back.

8. Try to be elegant and composed, but in a good mood.

Show him that you are a bright, optimistic, and confident young woman who understands how to look after herself; qualities that others would envy.

Whether you send him a text, an email, or a Snapchat, attempt to set up a meeting so you can think carefully about your plan.

Think about how you’re going to express yourself in a way that shows him the new and improved, confident you.

When you meet up for the first time following the breakup, keep the discussion light, but let him know that you’ve changed—that you’ve evolved.

Inform him that you have taken time away from the relationship to dwell on it and that you are willing to make adjustments in order to be together again.

Do not engage in a he-said-she-said argument that will not benefit you or the relationship.

Prepare to be the “fall guy” if necessary, accepting blame and reconciling with those views.

If you need more knowledge on how to win your guy back, you can always turn to educational publications, specifically “Text Chemistry,” which will offer you even more information on how to win your boyfriend back!